As a survivor is sexual assault, this is very troubling to hear and I’m beyond sorry that you had to endure such horrific atrocities. It’s curious that you don’t seem to hold the men who perpetrated the actual crime against you. Even if the women were so deranged and twisted that they would instigate such an egregious crime, did they hold a gun to the men’s heads and physically make them do it? Sexual assault is a crime against women and one that men use to assert their power and dominance. If a man is weak enough to be coaxed into committing such a devastatingly destructive crime, I have a hard time seeing how his actions can be excused. Blaming the women as opposed to addressing the criminal is a very curious take on sexual assault and it’s unfortunate that you have encountered such toxicity that you feel that way.