Every time I read your articles, I am reminded why you are one of my FAVORITES. This line right here..."have a piping hot mug of STFU" needs to be on a t-shirt so I can wear it! Isn't it amazing the unchecked privilege that allows white people to say this stuff OUT LOUD and not think anything of it? I work in HR and it would have made my entire century to see you coming into my office with that woman. Yet another article I'll be sharing. THANK YOU!