I could have highlighted this entire article. It is a disgrace that those of us who are survivors of domestic violence risk being violated time and time again just for telling our story for healing and to also hold the perpetrators accountable. There were people who told me they couldn’t believe my ex husband had abused me because he was “so nice to them.” And that was unfortunately both men AND women. Thank you for bringing attention to this and for continuing a much needed conversation that is long overdue for action.