I have truly MISSED your writing! You have a wit and candor that I have not experienced on this platform and I’m here for all of it! I’m 52 and I can relate to this article 100%. I was told I needed to become a cougar and get me a “young buck” because I would need someone who could “keep up with me”. Turns out, I, like you, was just a wee bit more concerned with my health than multiple orgasms and ended up coupling up with a man only 1 year my junior. This is definitely a topic that needs more discussion (with your stats highlighted!) 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾