…rading those same women in their lyrics, plays, movies, TV shows, and more recently Youtube videos. While more black men realize the profit that can be reaped from playing two sides of one coin they will continue to increase in number. They will turn their backs on their crumbling manhood in favor of invading black female spaces to l…
I literally could have highlighted this ENTIRE article. We are on the same page with how we feel about this degrading situation. I have always felt strongly about these so-called “dating gurus” who profess to have the answers for women but it never focuses on developing unconditional self love, only on “how to get and keep a man” which your excellent article so masterfully articulated translates to creating a situation that works for THEM, not the women they indoctrinate.
Women pay so much money for books, seminars, merch, from these so-called experts when the answers have always been within their own hearts. I chose to write books promoting self-love above writing about relationships because if we don’t have unconditional value for ourselves, we will constantly remain prey to these, as you so appropriately called them “snake-oil salesmen.” This is one of the best articles I’ve read on this topic and I thank you so much for channeling your frustration into writing such an incredible piece. 🙏🏽