It should not be that hard. Why is it difficult for White people to understand what Black people want? Aren’t we all human beings? We want the same thing that YOU DO. You are putting WAY too much thought into this as unfortunately so many White people who probably mean well are doing.

The Golden Rule, something I taught my children is the key. Live by that. Treat ALL the HUMANS with respect. This shouldn’t be something that confuses anyone. If it does that only justifies the fact that White people see Black people as subhuman which is a PROBLEM.

Again I urge you to just do Google searches, read books, talk to Black people outside of the internet. If you really care and want to help simply get involved and you’ll be on your way.