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The Real-Life Trauma of Mothers in the Black Community
When we leave a protest we can lie down our signs, but not our anguish and fear.
When the marches end and mothers outside the Black community take their signs and go home, they can “turn off” and disconnect from the struggle. The comfort of a warm shower can wash away the dirt and germs encountered during their interactions with the elements. And as they kiss their children goodnight, they can sleep soundly knowing if they become too tired of the fight, they have the choice to simply never return.
Unfortunately, the story is a much different one for Black mothers in this country. When the street march is over, the real struggle is just beginning.
We return home to our children and after a warm shower, we sit them down and remind them that we are advocating for their freedom, their equality, and their safety. Instead of resting in the security of being able to “flip the switch” when the going gets tough, we rest up, plan and pray for the strength and fortitude to continue the constant fight for the innocent lives we brought into this world.
Are we tired?
Yes.
Are we afraid?
Of course.
