This was excellent as always and a topic that I wish would be more widely discussed. I've always been a promoter of the "you love who you love" school, but my problem comes from Black men who not only exclusively date White women, but who disparage Black women in the process. Love who you love, but why is it necessary to disrespect your sisters in the process? When I encounter men like that, it's always a red flag to me that it's less about his choice and MORE about his own unaddressed issued. Great read!!!!