We wouldn't accept this in romantic relationships, we wouldn’t encourage our children to accept it in friendships, and we definitely shouldn't accept it from white America. Your article is what the focus on Valentine's day should be each year, because couples don't have problems loving each other but white people DO have a problem with taking and not giving until our well is tapped dry. You always know exactly how to bring clarity to a situation so that everyone can see what's going on. I appreciate you, Sis.