What a beautiful and incredible story of your family's history. The oral histories passed down by our elders are golden gems that keep our stories alive and continue to give life to us and those who will come after us. I have a saying "the writer who holds the pen that tells our stories is the one who rules the world." Keeping control of our own narratives is key to making sure our TRUE history is told. What a blessing that your grandmother shared your family history with you and that now you are able to share with your own children. What a strong and proud lineage you come from - it is evident in your powerful and gifted writing!! : )