You have spoken nothing but the God-honest TRUTH in this EXCELLENT article. I started to read the second one until it made reference to this one so I had to jump over and read it first. This article does NOT disappoint. You hit every issue Black women have with this situation on the head. I've been wondering most of my adult like why Black men of influence feel the need to disparage Black women to justify their choices of dating outside of their own ethnicity. Do what you do, but leave us OUT OF IT. GREAT ARTICLE!!